Goodbye to Bachelor Life

                                               

A bachelor is a man who has not yet married and is neither co habiting. The bachelor life is not new to the world because its history dates as back as 1385 where there are records of men who remained unmarried for all their lives. The bachelor life is common even today. All in all there comes a time when one makes a decision to move on. It is a transition to a more responsible lifestyle with a wife and maybe kids. There are mixed reactions as the transition takes place. Before marriage it is common as per different backgrounds to hold a bachelors party to bid goodbye to the bachelor life.

Bachelor parties are held in various ways depending on the locality but there are some common activities carried out in the bachelor’s party. The best man is always best placed to organize the bachelor’s party. Other than the usual partying, drinking and gambling, other activities take place as the groom to be says goodbye to the bachelor life. Performances by strippers are common in most settings and the activities that take place in the bachelor’s party are to remain a big secret. Mostly the brides to be never approve of the party because of the activities that come with the party. The reason might be because she is not invited. Only those involved know of the activities in the party. On the other side the ladies hold a bachelorette party for the bride to be. In other settings both parties are merged and it becomes one party for both groups.

As days go by the bridal partying is changing from the traditional setting where there is a rowdy scenario to a more reflective approach. As one bids goodbye to the bachelor life the best men are organizing more responsible activities like going for fishing, camping, barbecueing, watching ball games and other relevant activities. This is a worth while experience that one experiences freedom to the maximum before the life long commitment. Many men have embarrassed themselves as they bid bachelor life good bye. There have been instances that the groom messes up and leads to the cancellation of the wedding. Companies have taken this as a business opportunity and are organizing the parties at a cost. In today’s society the mode of saying goodbye to bachelor life has taken a new and more responsible look which is more accepted by the society at large.