Many men enjoy the life that comes with the bachelor life.
The freedom experienced is loved by many men and they opt to remain so
and lag behind when a serious relationship comes along the way. Surely
it is fun to spend all the time on things you love, sleep up to the time
you feel like and no supervision at whatever you want to do. The
pressure that comes with getting married is high because the
expectations and demands are high too. This is the reason most men are
up to the bachelor life.
Some
of the reasons that men give as to why they are still bachelors are
that there is no rush to get married because you might end up making a
mistake that you will regret for the rest of your life. Many bachelors
take time to get involved in dating games to avoid mistakes. Most
bachelors stand by the saying that you have to kiss many frogs before
you get your princess. Many bachelors insist that they are in the race
to build up their careers that are very demanding. Therefore no time for
a serious commitment. It is a fact that most careers are very demanding
that getting time for commitment is not a priority. On the other hand,
the freedom that comes with the bachelor life
is a factor that leads men to remain in that class. You get to go
anywhere, do anything and even hang out for as long as you want to
without any chores and nagging person on your back. You can have
relationships with different women and no question comes with it.
If
asked, most men would love the bachelor life for a little longer .Most
men leave this class due to the pressure from parents and women. There
is a phobia that comes with a broken marriage. It is traumatizing to see
or experience a relationship gone bad and the process of divorce which
is filled with very horrible scenes. To avoid such horrible instances
many bachelors opt to lead a bachelor life
rather than undergo a stress full life of depression in isolation.
Contrary to the belief, men re not made of steel and they experience an
emotional breakdown that comes with a broken marriage. It may be claimed
that men are strong but such instances take toll on them. These are
some of the reasons as to why some men want to stick to the bachelor life.
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